Virus, i would like to think you’re a catch since you already have kids and women throw themselves at you. like anything else in life, love comes unexpectedly. your friend is right, go out and just have fun. no expectations. like you, i was cautious with my heart. i still am. but to find true love, i guess you have to really risk it all.

I would have to agree that you think too much. I understand being cautious. Who isn’t afraid of hurting? Just have fun, don’t worry too much about the future and live in the moment. “Just burn the bridge when you get there” (hahaha san ko ba kinuha yun? dun sa The email ata?)

Here’s another one:

“Ayaw natin magmahal at dumikit sa iba dahil ayaw natin masaktan, maging malungkot, sawi at miserable muli, pero sa pag-iwas mo sa pag-ibig, masaya ka ba?”

That’s from someone who crashed and burned many times over and is stupid enough to risk it all over again.

**Virus is blushing**

Thanks Ches, I didn’t expect that, but your comment was a pleasant surprise.

I really thought I found true love already, sadly I risked it all. I guess, I was living in a fantasy world. Oh well, let us hope that I will find the “Cajones” to do so again!

Joiz,

That was one thought provoking comment. No not the wrongful cliche. Hahahaha! The one in Filipino. Need to let it roll around my head for a while.

Thanks guys! I really appreciate it I hope other people will comment as well.

Hi Mr. V…
Life will break you. Nobody can protect you from that, and living alone won’t either, for solitude will also break you with its yearning. You have to love. You have to feel. It is the reason you are here on earth. You are here to RISK YOUR HEART.

I know you know these things already. And I believe you already know what to do. Our biggest fears can actually be the very things we claim we want so much – happiness, joy, love, abundance and freedom! The question is not “How good can it get?” but “How good will we let it be?”.

Past is past. You already learned from it. And about your situation right now, here’s what I can say.. if you think you’re not good enough
for the woman you want, then you’re not good enough for yourself..because if you can’t accept your own image/situation, no one else in the world will.

“…i’ve learned that you
cannot make someone love you
all you can do is stalk them
and hope they give in…”.

hehehe

Hope you will feel ok.

well………

…..alam mo na yon

just wanted you to know that you are still ABLE oopps! did i just say that?..hehehe

Cris,

Wow, so much to go on with what you said. To tell you truthfully, I read your comment since last night, but just had to bring the points to bed, where the col. and pv (my alter egos) debated on it. Hahaha. But seriously, you have so much depth. Thank you very much.

Twish,

Ano na???

Thanks very much for the ego booster. Though people might think we did something very naughty! The interpretation of the word “ABLE” might get out of hand, and knowing the people who read here, they aren’t exactly saints ya know! Hahahaha!

To tell you truthfully, you yourself are a bombshell, and I can see why men fall all over themselves when they are near you. Now before anyone accuses me of shamelessly flirting online, all I can say is you must meet her to believe!

you haven’t met her yet - your next victim este dream girl…coz if you do, you won’t even think twice of pursuing or not.

i agree with ur friend’s advice. if u think too much about it, and be cautious, the spontaneity of the relationship suffers. just have fun.

i would so like to help you but i feel in no place to give advice… sorry! i’m still bitter of that bitch that ditched me for another guy five years ago.

Carey, hehehe, victim eh? I don’t know, been a little jaded for a while now. Really thought, I had it all before. Maybe I haven’t found her, but if I do, I’d be scared shitless to commit again. I don’t know, maybe she’d take that fear away or make me believe that is possible. Oh well, will just cruise along and see where my feet will take me. Thanks very much.

Paolo, uhm five years is quite a long time to be carrying such negative thoughts, maybe it’s time to let go huh? (look who’s talking! hahahaha!) But seriously, I give myself a year, if I don’t get my head straight after that, I will make a conscious effort to remove all frustrations in my brain. Yep easier said than done, but gotta start somewhere.

manong, i AM a BOMB waiting to be detonated i can be like that at first, but i can be boring as years flutter by nway, now ko lang napansin ah “Although, I can be happy all on my own (that’s what palms are for)” HAHAHHAHAHAA!! ilang beses ko rin sa yo narinig yan during the event last night! YOSI KADIRI!!! hahahhahaa!

“eyes burnin last night…mainggitttttt!”

ito naman eh, nambubuko eh. Shhhh. sikwet yan. Hahahaha.

I apologize for sneezing on you the rest of the night ha? Didn’t know I was allergic to beautiful women. Hahahaha!